Wednesday 4 July 2007

To All the ladies In The House

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

Enough money within her control to move outand rent a place of her own,even if she never wants to or needs to... My parents are on my case so I feel like fleeing from them. This is sooo true!


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

Something perfect to wear if the employer,or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...So true, i changed my clothes like 5 times before going out with Mr O last week. Shame.


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..

A youth she's content to leave behind.... not sure about that yet.


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

A past juicy enough that she's looking forward to re telling it in her old age....


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .....

A set of screw drivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra.... The cordless drill will be useful if boyfy is acting up. Simply drill his brains out.

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .

One friend who always makes her laugh.. . And one who lets her cry... Thank you delilah 3.


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....

A good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family.... Oh my arm chair in the UK, I miss you gan o.

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

Eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal, that will make her guests feel honored.... Well, well well!

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

A feeling of control over her destiny..


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

How to fall in love without losing herself. So true!


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

How to quit a job: Temmy is an expert on this. No more intrest, I let go.
Break up with a lover: Not so easy but can be necesary.
And confront a friend without; ruining the friendship... Trust me on this.


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

When to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

That she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents.. Isnt that sad???

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

That her childhood may not have been perfect...but its
over...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

What she would and wouldn't do for love or more...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

Wow to live alone... even if she doesn't like it... get married or find a flat mate!


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW..

Whom she can trust, whom she can't,and why she shouldn't take it personally...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

where to go...be it to her best friend's kitchen table...or a charming inn in the woods... when her soul needs soothing...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

What she can and can't accomplish in a day...
a month...and a year...


Finally,
Every woman should know she is fearfully and wonderfully made!

20 comments:

A Kel called Wonder ...... said...

Lovely.........and timely. I just posted on all the people i have left behind because i've realised that God has moved me to a new and better realm. I like this post, i like!

Smoothvibes said...

Nice post!..... We really are all fearfully and wonderfully made!

Eyin'ju Oluwa said...

Nice, i really like it. Hehehehe@ changing 5 times, i feel you o jare.

Anonymous said...

B E A U T I F U L L Y written. I read the whole thing twice.

Totally agree with When to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...

vindication through innocence said...

lol!!u need help!!lol at the screw driver and black bra!!o sooo true!!

The Life of a Stranger called me said...

Thank God for the life He has given us, we just have to make do with it, until He too moves us to a new and better realm.

Anonymous said...

i like the very last one!

Anonymous said...

lol i agree with you on the outfit thing... everysingle time i'm leaving to go out.. even if i've known what i'll wear for a week.. the room still manages to be a mess bcos i ummmm.. still manage to change my mind last minute.. lol.. lmao@ a past juicy enough.. still working on it... good on me i have a lot of friends who always make me laugh.. aren't i lucky... ok i dont agree on the plate thing(loll... possibly cos i cant cook to save my life)more so than ever i know who i can trust and who i cant

oh i absolutely adore this post.. good stuff temmy... I love love love it.. and you of course.. happy summer my dear

Anonymous said...

its weird though but that 'fearfully and wonderfully made' stuff never really gelled with me.. not that it doesnt make sense.. it does... but its one of those phrases i've never used and probably never will.. but i echo the sentiment

classybabe said...

i like.especially this "......fearfully and wonderfully made!"

zaiprincesa said...

i like i like....:)...
i agree with most of the things you wrote..could totally relate...
Some of my fav's:
"How to fall in love without losing herself"
"When to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY"....
So So True!..Have a blessed week, Temmy.
BTW,
Hows Naija and Mr.O?..;)

aloted said...

one lady responding! lol
Love da post!!! Well done!

Dimples said...

NICE!!!!!!

Oro AGBA...nice one Temmy...well put!!!

Jennifer A. said...

awwww.....a woman shd have a recipe such that her guests will feel honored...I love that---no trashy meals or wine glasses...

A woman shd know that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (three kudos to that)...


Cheers Temi...

Uzo said...

And Maya Angelou does it again.....Ms Angelou is the best..

Ms. Catwalq said...

Preach on sistah!!!!!!

Biodun said...

I like girl, n yep we r wonderfully n fearfully made! I need to give u a call o, mabinu, will call u soon dear!

Unknown said...

I am fearfully and wonderfully made!! I know!! LOL!!

HAve a lovely weekend!!

...toyintomato said...

read this 3 times, utterly amazing piece of writing.
this particularly touched me:

every "woman should know Who she can trust, who she can't,and why she shouldn't take it personally..."

Daddy's Girl said...

Very very nice.