Now, this is a very controversial topic but the truth is it has been boggling my mind for a while now. I know that if we do a poll there is bound to be different answers as to why they should make heaven.Some people may never come by this blog again sef but well....
Talking from personal and other peoples experiences;
1. It is the second wife that in most cases makes the father of the house to stop caring, loving, and spending on his family.
2. The woman can also make it possible for the husband to disown his kids just because they refuse to accept new ''mummy''.
3. I have heard of instances of a father moving from his palatial home to live in a room and parlour with new wife.(now I call that true love, abi).
What on earth would make a 25year old woman that has the whole world in front of her decide that she wants to be a second wife! In this generation where people pray fire for fire. She just decided she'd rather have all her husband's kids and wife wake up and curse her every minute of the day. For instance, God forbid this happening oh, if my husband decides to have mistress not to talk of a wife outside shebi na just to do 7 days of white fasting that God should eliminate the woman. Shikena. Na so she go just die because of a man.lol
Nah, in all seriousness now. Can somebody please tell me if any second wife that entered the liaison willing or unwillingly make heaven. May God forgive us all sha.
10 comments:
Being that I believe that God is a merciful God, I want to answer that these 2nd wives and others (mistresses, pure kpoms and the like) will make it to heaven. They might just be at the back of the line. lol!
Lol.
Back row and front row na to make heaven dey important oh.
Be serious jare.
omo i dunno the answer o..
only criteria is that they are born again..am guessing this is after they became second wives.
na only God know o..
omo this one pass me lol.. I think a spirit filled born again woman will not see a married man and say God told me he is my HUSBAND LOL..
But if she has already entered the house in ignornace and then gave her life to God, well you know is a real softi when it comes to us now.. she will enter fast fast..lol.
lol...I doubt all those prayers kill them oh...
The thing with God is that his thoughts are not our thoughts and one can only guess at what He would do...
@ALoted:LOL
@LOASCM: surely a spirit filled woman won't go and start loving another woman's property o. U r right.
@Afrobabe:ARe u sure those prayers don't kill. Maybe not immediately but I am sure all those curses go dey do something.
It only takes the grace of God,to know who will or will not make heaven at the end of the day be it a second wife, first wife or whatever if you dwell in sin Heaven is far fetched! be it the small white lies or black big lies, fornication, adultery, idolatry, stealing, backbitting, anger, envy, murder, unforgiveness, malice keeping bearing, false witness and generally just missing the mark once you are not in tune with God then heaven is not assured!
second wives, third wives, fourth wives, the truth be said they will have their place where they belong, like aloted said if they were ignorant before they went in then Lord have mercy, the truth is we ALL take God for granted and treat the gospel and commandements of God so lightly and try to make the scriptures our own philosophy of life that is quoting the bible when and where its ok with our circumstances.
So as for them going to heaven or hell it depends on what state they are in but rememeber no one breaks the law of God and gets away with it, even when God shows mercy, each one will STILL have his own. Read the bible from genesis to the end and tell me one man of God that sinned and lived a trouble free life! WE dont realise How mindful we should be of our sins and how it affects the blessings God intended for us.
Yes we could be blessed by God because of who he is, by association, by prayers from those in authority who have supernatural influence from God, and we could be blessed through proper conduct but the greatest blessig of all that we can be proud of and that will not slip away is blessing obtained through righteousness, meaning being in accordance with God how many of us are, not very many.
so even if the 2nd wife is in sin and committing one of the seven sins God detest, the truth is someone lying or using genge to work are both in the same boat.
LETS NOT TAKE FOR GRANTED WHO GOD IS! PEACE.
@Anon: You have hit the nail on the head. Infact I know not what to say. Well said. Thanks.
I don't know the right answer, but I can say that God created Adam and Eve - not Adam, Eve, and Eve. That said, a second wife can go to heaven, I believe, if she repents of being a married man's wife (and other sins, of course). Getting married to a man who is already married, to me, is the same thing as putting asunder in the relationship that God has joined together.
But I don't know for sure. Only God knows everything.
Yes, some of them do believe that they can become born again, and like someone said God is merciful, so if they come with a genuine heart, He will forgive them, but wait! Have they moved out of the man’s house? They can leave any born pikins for the man with him oh, but part of the reconciliation process (with God) is to sever themselves from the illicit union, and go and start their own life afresh.
I know someone who has plenty wives but is born again! Whish kain born again be dat sef? Anyway, his pastor being a true man of God called him and said, look the only way God’s favor can rest upon you is to settle your “extra” wives and turn them loose! The ones wey get pikin for you, you can either take them and let your 1st wife raise them, or have their mother raise them, but make sure that they lack nothing!
Part of becoming born again whole heartedly for a second wife is to remove herself from that satan-ordained union. As long as she continues to remain in it, she can’t make Heaven!
Now on the contrary, some profess to be born again, but are still going around causing harm to the first wife and her children, but like you said, any first wife wey know say hin husband get mistress or second wife and is not living and breathing the Bible, then me sef no know for am oh!
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