Yeah, I met Tosin when I was in my year 2 in the University. Tosin is the playboy that every sane girl runs from, but not your Temmy! He was in year 1 then but he was well known in school.
1. For his good looks.
2. He is a charmer, with words and expression.
Why I fell for him:
He has a slight stutter that gets bad when he is excited or angry. I found that very sexy. You can imagine how funny he gets when he is trying hard to explain something to me. For one, I always feign innocence and he goes on and on telling me the same thing. lol.
We started dating. My first ever boyfriend..... I was in Part 2 in UNI. Didn't I just really take my time getting one!
It was fun. He is a lovely person. He comes to my faculty just to tell me that he thinks I am the best thing that ever happened to him. Ok, Just because I have dark skin no mean say I no dey blush o.
We were together for 10 months and then Tosin wanted more............
Ha, ko ma ti ya ke. Wait now, the boy no gree hear me. Monkey. He wanted to take my cherished innocence away without my consent. I no go gree.
Then one day, he came to see me in my hostel. We were in Luluagi's room, gisting. Then he pounced on me. Haba, even if you want to rape me, have the decency of doing it in my own room now.
Gboa! Came the sound, that was Temmy Slapping Tosin.
I thought the boy was going to beat me green and yellow cos black and blue will be an understatement.
Na so the boy rub his cheeks, gave me a peck on my forehead and left, here I was curled in one corner of the room expecting the bashing of my life.
He sent his friends to beg, said I slapped him but never told anyone what he wanted to do.
I couldn't say it either, I knew going back to him will be to my own detriment. The boy will not only rape me, he will also get me pregnant and refuse to marry me.
But shebi na me now, we got back together!(yeah, i am silly)
How did we break up:
This is where Wildcat comes in. Wildcat never supported me dating him cos he is Muslim. Do you want to become an Alhaja was always her song. One day, Wildie and I were in my house when she used style to tell my mama that Tosin is a MUSLIM.
Yeepa, come hear as Mama Temmy started: Lailai not in this house, your father is an elder in the church, you want to disgrace him abi. Biko, who is talking about marriage. I was then in Year 3 in Uni. See me see wahala o.
With Mama Temmy On your case, there is no way one will not succumb to her wishes, she will not give you breathing space until you do her wish. I left Tosin for good.
The 1.5 years with Tosin was fun,
1. He made me feel like a queen.
2. Because of his stutter, I learnt to listen well to people. The normal me, is hyperactive and a parrot.
3. He made me value friendship.
Ehen, i nearly forgot this part o. In the 1st 2 months of my relationship with Tosin, there is this babe in my class. Lets call her Halima the witch.
She came to me one day and said to me, why do you like Tosin so much, do you think he feels the same way about you? Tosin is a playboy o, in fact I know 2 girls that he is dating presently. I can take you to their rooms if you are interested.
No thanks, bitch! Actually bilsch is the right word!
She couldn't wait to grab Tosin when we broke up. I am sure she it all planned from day one. Emere omo.
They are married now, how she did it I am still trying to figure out. His best friend didn't go for the wedding. Said he was sure Tosin is under an influence. Lol
She is4 years older than Tosin and already looks like his mum, but I have heard that Love is blind. Their own LOVE is dead blind.
Temmy remains a friend of the family.