Wednesday, 10 January 2007

Random Talk 3

Veralicious Vera! You are on my mind now, as a matter of fact I have not been able to sleep well. Na your thoughts full my head.(Don't you just wish) lol. To be honest, running into the Ex at the airport is the cause of all this wahala o.

At this particular point I do not want to say wether I may or may not be rekindling the fire of ''love''. Yeepa! Did i just say that???

After the ''kiss'', he left. I went back upstairs, soaked myself in the bath tub for hours. I was fighting so hard with my emotions. I realised I was very firm with him when he came to the UK cos I was still hurting. Now that I no longer hurt, it is as if I am now vulnerable. I am counting days to leave Nigeria lest I fall flat on my face.....

Cherub: I actually enjoyed kissing him. Remember i did that for 5 years now.
Diamond Hawk: when are you going to start your novel.
Oro: uhmnnnnn...... i will be a good gal.
NaijaBloke: wetin you de talk. Nothing go happen.

There was a major family meeting on sunday after my sister's wedding date was picked. Remember that my cosuin in the US was summoned to Nigeria cos of her ''single status''. The meeting was because of the two of us. My cousin made it clear that she is willing to get married if it will make all of them happy. And guess what: she announced to the family that she has met a 55 year old man in the US that has 2 kids from a previous marriage. My aunt nearly fainted from shock but that has kept them quiet. they agreed she can take her time to find a young man. Ma famille est fantastique!


Why are men the way they are?

1 Hav you wondered why men prefer to drive around for hours rather than stop to ask for directions?
2. Have you suspected that the men that try to control you are secretely afraid of the power you have over them.

3. Ever wonder why men get so upset when they are trying to concentrate on something and you get them to pay attention to you?

4. Ever wondered why he is playing macho and insisting that everything is fine when he has a lot running through hs mind?

5. Have you ever wondered why men are so protective of their cars?

Men have been taught to be:

Defensive and Suspicious. We want them to be trusting and OPEN!

Hide their emotions We want them to show their emotions

Appear strong and unconquerable We want them to express their vulnerablity.

Competitive We wnat them to be cooperative.

Independent We want them to feel their need for us.

Stay in control We want them to let go of control.


Isnt that what women want? I think Nigeria is making me feel mushy! England here I come.

The mail i pasted below was sent to my hi5 account. It was out of boredom 2 days ago when I remembered that I have an account with hi 5. I just have to share this email. It cracked me up big time.


HOW ARE U?I HOPE U ARE FINE AND COOL. FRANK IS MY NAME,I AM 25 YEARS,SINGLE AND LOOKING FOR A GAL FOR A LOVELY N NICE RELATIONSHIP. I AM A HIGHLY EDUCATED GUY,A SEXY AND FIT BLACK GUY,CURLED BLACK HAIR,BROWN EYES,5.10FT,AVERAGE BULIT. I AM A STUDENT AT THE MIDDLESEX UNIVERSITY OFFERING BUSINESS ADMINISTRATION,A TRAINEE MANAGER AT ROYAL MAIL AND A DJ FOR A RADIO AND NIGHT CLUBS. I AM A GHANAIAN BUT I WAS BORNED N RAISED IN LONDON AND I LIVE WITH MY THREE LOVELY SISTERS IN LONDON SO U CAN VISIT ME AT ANY TIME OR DAY. I SAW UR AD AT THE HI5 AND I DECIDED TO WRITE U COS I REALLY LOVE UR INTEREST AND I WISH TO KNOW U BETTER IF U DON'T MIND. I DON'T HAVE A PIC COS MY SCANNER ISN'T WORKING I AM A FRIENDLY,LOVING,CARING,GOOD SENSE OF HUMOUR,I LOVE CLUBBING,READING,TRAVELLING,DANCING,SINGING,SEX,MUSIC. U CAN ASK ME ANY QUESTIONS AND I WILL SURELY ANSWER ALL. I WILL END HERE WITH MUCH LOVE AND KISSES TO UR SEXY LIPS. TAKE CARE OF URSELF AND HAVE A NICE DAY LOVE, FRANK DO WRITE SOON..U CAN CALL OR TEXT ME ON 07931314634,SWEETNESS NO PRANK OR PRIVATE CALL N U CAN LEAVE ME A TXT N I CALL


11 comments:

kay said...

You better start confessing now... looks to me you know rekindling the fire of 'love' is exactly what you're doing, this one you're feeling mushy already hehehe...
abeg who be dis boy on hi5?? you wanna reply him and take him on a cruz going nowhere a little?? just for the fun of it, if you're not up to it, then just ignore 'tax' abeg.
This your insight on who men are and who we want then to be na real wa! I truely agree with you.

Laher girl. Hope naija isn't too hot sha,

Anonymous said...

hmmmm so why are you still running away from ex?

lolol @ the Mr. hi5 lover refering to your page as an ad. LOL

The Life of a Stranger called me said...

temmy tayo you wont kill me. Which kind respose is this. Did you place an, see all the qualities the man has defined - like he is replying to some sort of dating agency.

So you have finished having all the fun in nigeria that you have started getting bored, you have not finished telling us what is happening. Im sure you have tales which you want to keep under raps. LOL.

This your ex should work over drive, he should be working you daily, casue you will soon return..eya. vulnerable ke, na LOVE.

Take care gal - stay blessed.

NaijaBloke said...

Temmy dearie ..am going to concur with Vera's views abt the situation o,u know i have always been Ex's supporter,but for real I think u shd give him a chance o ..

..and the Ghanian guy,u shd probably just call him from a payphone when u get to london or from Naija and string him along a lil' cos me I love to dey hear all this big big grammar when someborri dey speak am

Funmi said...

WILL END HERE WITH MUCH LOVE AND KISSES TO UR SEXY LIPS.

Hmmmm Temmy this one is serious o.

biodun said...

I missed some smeet gist sha, been slacking for realz, so u and the ex kissed bah, wooooooooo, lol Girl have fun n do wot makes u happy, that is all that matters @ d end of the day, keep us posted though.
lol @ ur cousin, lol

angie said...

hmmmm.....i m begining to agree wit Vera and co.Love is definitely still in the air. so sniff it in and live.....lol
lol@hi5 guy.....so he doesn't have a pic cos his scanner isn't working???so wen r u goin t ovisit him and his 3 lovely sistas

Oro said...

Baby, oga gan o...From Naija with ... what ae we going to call that one now.
Sha have fun but small small ...remember. Its the eyes the crap dey take so ori o. :).

PS: How far wit ur cousin now? ;)

confusednaijagirl said...

LOL dont no the story about ex but i will read your archives and the hi5 dud LMAO . i think that one is true love oh!!

Vera Ezimora said...

Look @ this; the first word was Vera. Girl, stop tripping! You do have me on ur mind.

Get back with him now....!!! I like him.

Calabar Gal said...

LOL at ur family. Summoning a meeting cos of ur single status!! Ur cousin gave them just the right answer!! I can imagine the shock on their faces when they heard that.

This Frank self. I dont bother with Hi5. I feel its pranksters that play around there more often than not. I'm tempted to give him a call and arrange a meeting.