Veralicious Vera! You are on my mind now, as a matter of fact I have not been able to sleep well. Na your thoughts full my head.(Don't you just wish) lol. To be honest, running into the Ex at the airport is the cause of all this wahala o.
At this particular point I do not want to say wether I may or may not be rekindling the fire of ''love''. Yeepa! Did i just say that???
After the ''kiss'', he left. I went back upstairs, soaked myself in the bath tub for hours. I was fighting so hard with my emotions. I realised I was very firm with him when he came to the UK cos I was still hurting. Now that I no longer hurt, it is as if I am now vulnerable. I am counting days to leave Nigeria lest I fall flat on my face.....
Cherub: I actually enjoyed kissing him. Remember i did that for 5 years now.
Diamond Hawk: when are you going to start your novel.
Oro: uhmnnnnn...... i will be a good gal.
NaijaBloke: wetin you de talk. Nothing go happen.
There was a major family meeting on sunday after my sister's wedding date was picked. Remember that my cosuin in the US was summoned to Nigeria cos of her ''single status''. The meeting was because of the two of us. My cousin made it clear that she is willing to get married if it will make all of them happy. And guess what: she announced to the family that she has met a 55 year old man in the US that has 2 kids from a previous marriage. My aunt nearly fainted from shock but that has kept them quiet. they agreed she can take her time to find a young man. Ma famille est fantastique!
Why are men the way they are?
1 Hav you wondered why men prefer to drive around for hours rather than stop to ask for directions?
2. Have you suspected that the men that try to control you are secretely afraid of the power you have over them.
3. Ever wonder why men get so upset when they are trying to concentrate on something and you get them to pay attention to you?
4. Ever wondered why he is playing macho and insisting that everything is fine when he has a lot running through hs mind?
5. Have you ever wondered why men are so protective of their cars?
Men have been taught to be:
Defensive and Suspicious. We want them to be trusting and OPEN!
Hide their emotions We want them to show their emotions
Appear strong and unconquerable We want them to express their vulnerablity.
Competitive We wnat them to be cooperative.
Independent We want them to feel their need for us.
Stay in control We want them to let go of control.
Isnt that what women want? I think Nigeria is making me feel mushy! England here I come.
The mail i pasted below was sent to my hi5 account. It was out of boredom 2 days ago when I remembered that I have an account with hi 5. I just have to share this email. It cracked me up big time.
HOW ARE U?I HOPE U ARE FINE AND COOL. FRANK IS MY NAME,I AM 25 YEARS,SINGLE AND LOOKING FOR A GAL FOR A LOVELY N NICE RELATIONSHIP. I AM A HIGHLY EDUCATED GUY,A SEXY AND FIT BLACK GUY,CURLED BLACK HAIR,BROWN EYES,5.10FT,AVERAGE BULIT. I AM A STUDENT AT THE MIDDLESEX UNIVERSITY OFFERING BUSINESS ADMINISTRATION,A TRAINEE MANAGER AT ROYAL MAIL AND A DJ FOR A RADIO AND NIGHT CLUBS. I AM A GHANAIAN BUT I WAS BORNED N RAISED IN LONDON AND I LIVE WITH MY THREE LOVELY SISTERS IN LONDON SO U CAN VISIT ME AT ANY TIME OR DAY. I SAW UR AD AT THE HI5 AND I DECIDED TO WRITE U COS I REALLY LOVE UR INTEREST AND I WISH TO KNOW U BETTER IF U DON'T MIND. I DON'T HAVE A PIC COS MY SCANNER ISN'T WORKING I AM A FRIENDLY,LOVING,CARING,GOOD SENSE OF HUMOUR,I LOVE CLUBBING,READING,TRAVELLING,DANCING,SINGING,SEX,MUSIC. U CAN ASK ME ANY QUESTIONS AND I WILL SURELY ANSWER ALL. I WILL END HERE WITH MUCH LOVE AND KISSES TO UR SEXY LIPS. TAKE CARE OF URSELF AND HAVE A NICE DAY LOVE, FRANK DO WRITE SOON..U CAN CALL OR TEXT ME ON 07931314634,SWEETNESS NO PRANK OR PRIVATE CALL N U CAN LEAVE ME A TXT N I CALL