I appreciate everyone that stopped by to encourage me. You guys are the reason I am back here today(red face and blushing). I am really trying to get my groove back on. Thanks guys.
Yeah,Monday the 18th marked 3 years that I started that journey called marriage with my boo. It has been 3 years of fun, fights, arguments,he has made me cry, he has made me consider snuffing the life out of him via pillow suffocation some times. Well, I guess this is what marriage is all about. Learning to live with and accommodate each other's weaknesses and even strengths.
In my heart I know that another man wouldn't do it for me...I LOVE MY HUSBAND! But why cant men just understand what women want. Why cant they just get it that we are supposedly the weaker sex and we need to get away with some things. for me i find it totally annoying and frustrating when my husband wants to hang out on a Friday night. I don't like going out and i;d rather we both stay at home. he is the opposite and maing him stay at home is like getting out 2 year old to pound yam! He becomes restless and it pisses me off. Truth be told,I thought I was going to get over it but no it still annoys me any Friday he decides to rebel by hanging out. Am i being unfair? IS he not supposed to be doing what makes me happy?
Before marriage, I was so scared of pre marital sex mainly because I had this nagging thought that I was going to get pregnant and then my parents would kill me! That thought followed me through my Uni days and you can bet i lost a few relatiosnhips due to my stand.
I can remember vividly that on my wedding night, i told myself that now that i have been given the certificate to let go I was going to make up for the lost years(lol)
But hey I am yet to fulfill that fantasy. I get too tired after work to even think of sex which is damn right annoying!
And to make matters worse little Temmy sleeps right on our bed and in the middle. He has perfected his sleeping position so excellently that if his dad tries to cross over him to my side of the bed he springs up like and athlete. I just wonder if the boy sleeps at all, he couldn't be pretending to be sleeping now abi?
I have been advised to bounce him from our room but hey...I am so attached to him and i am so confused. ever heard of being in love with two men? I guess that is my dilemma. Help!!!!!
16 comments:
aww, being in love with two men. but i think you need to make some room for you and your husband. you could have sleep in nights with you son, like on weekdays but have weekends to u and the boo alone,
At over two years, i think Temmy needs to leave you guys room, he needs a little sibling eh? :)Abeg go hangout with your hubby on Friday o, you're supposed to make him happy too right?
ahhh, temmy should go to his own room oh! sharp sharp
*Carrying Placard that reads - Temmy must go to his room* lol. I think that is the spice to the marriage -that men cannot fully comprehend us and we cannot fully comprehend them. My husband once said that the day he understands women, he will write a best seller -one that has the solution to man's problems.
Pardon me if I am being too forward but I will say don't play with your sex in marriage. That is a strong binder which the lack of may affect the other areas of a man's life.
Awww this is too sweet. All that mush aside, detach yourself from your son with the quickness. Think about it like this, you are raising him to grow up and leave your house. A house that will be with you and your husband.You need to try and build the bond even as your kids are young. Temmy Jnr, enter your room. He will not die, yes he will cry for a little bit but he will be ok. Compromise and hang out with your boo from time to time. Psych your self after work too, get your mojo going by playing some romantic love jams on your way home to get you in the mood (I know its difficult but try pls).
You go girl.
@Yinskulolo: Point taken my darlyn. I need to work on that.
@Myne: I dont like going out which is one of the reasons we argue some times but hey I think I need to learn.
@Jobsfornaija:lol. That is otherwise known as bouncing.
@Rita: You are so right,sex is a binding factor in marriage and I am gonna do everythng to make it work. The stress of making a relationship work shoud ginger a woman to make her home stand. Thanks.
@Ano:You are so on point. I am going to work things out.
@Temmy tayo: See me that is talking...I need to take my own advise... I forgot to tell you a big congratulations, it is not easy to do 3 years oh!
I'm single
but i know that if your baby is 6 months yet
He/she should have his/her room
so jump and obey moi now.
@Rita: Please do o. Apparently things are easier said than done.
@ Tisha: Yes Ma'am! LOL
Get your groove back on with your hubby, here's me cheering you on to discipline little Temmy to stay out of her parents' bedroom. You can do this! Lol.
Good 2 c u r back 2 blogsville.
Tkr of u & ur family.
knock!knock!!!!!
Il semble que vous soyez un expert dans ce domaine, vos remarques sont tres interessantes, merci.
- Daniel
you've abandoned us again abi?
May the Spirit lead you to blog soon!!!
I cant post on this blog again...what did i do wrong?
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