Saturday, 13 January 2007


The time is 12.17am. I just got in, I am very restless. I should be in bed. I am too excited to sleep.

I went bowling with EX at the Dome. We had fun. We kept looking at each other and smiling. Two of our friends met us there and kept teasing us mercilessly about having signed a contract for life(trust Naija people and their assumed theories).

I took a bottle of Smirnoff Ice, I guess that was the cause of all this drama. I was already feeling tipsy after one bottle. Ex asked me what I think he should do to make me love him again.
I said he can start by kissing my nose.

He picked me up and I had no choice but to wrap my arms around his neck cos I was tipsy. He kissed my nose in front of about 40 Nigerians that were bowling and having their own fun.

Told him it is time to go home as Mama Temmy was calling but I refused to pick up. Because of man I ignored my mum's calls. See my life.

Left the Dome and went to but Suya. He started to feed me suya while telling me that his life can never be the same if I refuse his proposal this second time. I told him not to bother propose cos that way if I say NO it wont hurt him.

We left for my place, time was 11.30pm. Called Mama Temmy to say I was downstairs with EX in his car. She was going to shout but softened when she heard his name. Why cant my own people help me to be strong.(excuses).

We just sat down in the car listening to music as he refused to say anything. He was really staring at me and at some point I thought maybe I had grown an extra head. I couldn't say anything either, there was nothing to say. I was seriously fighting the urge to hug him. (Chineke, I am turning into something else).

At 12 am he said his goodnight and gave me a peck on my forehead. I am very sure that he has achieved his aim.

I am leaving Nigeria on Tuesday............ till then, May God help me.


Vera Ezimora said...

Am I first? Yes! I'll brb. Lemme go read it

Vera Ezimora said...

Girl, just get back with the poor boy jare. It's obvious u cannot get enough of him anyway.

He kissed ur nose? Awwww!! That is soooo cute. Oh God, I'm in serious need of some romance in my life. Where da hell has the romance gone 2?

Temmy, you know you still love him. Give him a second chance babe. If not 4 anything, do it 4 the fact that I love him. Yes, I know I'm not the one who will live with him, but I love him dammit!

ChiefO said...

i'm writing a naija movie about the twice of u already. the title is REKINDLE LOVE abi would LOVE REMADE IN NAIJA be a better title.

The Life of a Stranger called me said...

chei, chai, Im even begining to like him all over, why oh why oh why did he hurt you. I would have had a wedding invite to come soon. So what will we do. Temmy casue me Im excited as well. A kiss on your nose in public. Na waoo.

temmy tayo said...

@Vera: Babes, I wish it was that easy.BTW, I can't leave comments on your blog don't know why.

You like him??? I can hook you guys up o. lol(I will kill you).

@Chiefo: why not make the title of your movie LOVE ME LOVE ME NOT.

@LOASCM: sob sob, no wedding invite at the moment but who knows?

Funmi said...

it takes alot for a naija guy to display affection in i will give him credit guys need to really talk about the way forward now though......the next 72 hours will be very important.good luck

azuka said...

Ahem. Temmy's back in love, yay! The guy does sound wonderful, but I'd say don't give in too quickly ;-).

When the final decision comes, no mise the gist oh!

Cherub (former bijouxoxo) said...

Chei! Mo ti so ti ti ti. I gbadun this EX o, infact i dunno if it's right to call him an EX again. Please, ChiefO this movie, let's join heads together to produce it, 'cos this is one soap opera in the making.

Smoothvibes said...

I like this daily blogging!...

He kissed ur nose .. pere?

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Anonymous said...

whao!!! there's definitely something there eh?