The Evil That Men Do!

I really feel bad using this title for today's posting but make I no lie I am getting tired of men and their antics. I had dinner with two of my girlfriends yesterday, as usual we got talking about MEN.

A friend to one of my girl friends just got ditched after a 10 years relationship. Yeah, she is to blame for staying that long with a guy without being sure of where the relationship is heading to. Anyways back to why I blame the so called guy: the monkey came to the UK for his masters 3 years ago. He still kept in touch with girlfriend who already has her masters and is working with SHELL Petroleum in Port Harcourt.

Of course she wasn't against the idea of the guy going for his masters, she wanted the best for him. Boyfriend stopped calling after some time, excuse being that it is not really easy for him to combine work and school. Girl didn't mind calling him at least she is well off. The guy obviously gave her signs to move on with this silly attitude of his but you know how WE are now, she didn't get the message or rather she chose not to SEE the handwriting on the wall.

Boy got back to Nigeria last December and called girl to say that he doesn't think the relationship will work. Story is let us end this thing we call a relationship. As if that was not enough, he told her a week after that he is getting married this April!

My only advice to the girl is: Strip naked at 1am and curse the guy. Just kidding but then the guy deserves to be cursed.

After that story, another one came up. Of course you know that where 2 or 3 women are gathered story must surely flow.

Case 2

This girl ehn, lets call her Bimbo has been dating Tunde for 4 years. Girl moved to the UK for greener pastures as she had tried everything possible to get a job in Nigeria to no avail. Their plan was that once the guy is ready for them to get married she will come back home, by then she would have made some money to support herself as well. Bimbo always called Tunde every other day since she got into the UK. Initially Tunde too called as often as he could, 6 months later Bims ran back to Naija to see her love, she was back in the country a month after since the boy said their wedding will be in 10 months time.

3 months into the new year, uncle T stopped calling. Bims later found out that Tunde was seeing a calabar girl. Calabar girl ke... I just told her she shouldn't bother to run after the guy he is already hooked. I have a personal score to settle with calabar girls( i have to support my friend).
Calabar girls and their legacy!

She went home last August after she and the guy settled all their wahala on the phone. She got to Nigeria and was staying with at the guy's place, she said at least no girl showed up and she thought all was settled. 5 days into her stay at the guy's place, he told her that he wanted them to go and stay in a hotel all in the name of rekindling their love. Said they got to the hotel in the morning, watching a movie and then his phone rang: he later said that he was going out to see a friend. Mr T did not come back! The idiota went to see the Calabar girl and that one seized his car keys(that is his story). He left Bims at the hotel! He didnt even feel remorse she said, he was just staring at her the next day like a goat that was about to be slaughtered. Oloshi(excuse my french).

Case3

This is about 2 guys jare. Both of them well known to me. Lets call them W and B. W had been dating this girl for some months but was always telling his friends that ''I no too send the babe''. She is hausa, I am Yoruba and I can't marry her. This fateful day they all went to a party and B laced X's (the girl) drink. He later had his way with her. B later told W what he did, they had a nasty bust up and both left the party in anger. W must have realised he really likes X. It dawned on him after she was raped!

X is a girl after my heart because she got about 4 of her friends from University and they went to see W at home. They beat him blue black.


A Quick Note To All My Girl Friends Out There:

A man is just not into you and worth waiting for when he is not calling you. No matter how busy men claim to be there is always someone they talk to who puts a smile on their faces.

A man is just not for you when he is having sex with someone else. It takes a lot to have sex with someone, you just don't wake up and decide I want to have sex with B!

A man that disappears on you is not worth your tears! Don't give him the chance to reject you again. He is gone because he is not good enough for you.

A man that is selfish isn't just worth it. He is a jerk, an asshole, you already have one you don't need another one.

A man that is not proud of you is not just into you. He is a fool. There is a man out there willing to tell it to the mountains that you are HIS!

A man that is breaking up with you is an idiot. He has made it clear that he doesn't need you. There is a man out there that will be happy that you didn't make up with your crappy Ex boyfriend.

Yes, of course you will meet men at different stages of recovering from a broken relationship. If he is into you, my dear he will get over his issues fast and makes sure he doesn't lose you.

My Spirits asks me: where does this put Ex. I answered my spirit: IN HIS PLACE.