Temmytayo

I am so glad that you all updated your blogs. I should have posted this since monday night but I have been busy at work. Belle, biko no vex ehn. Uhmnnnn.....what people can do for gbeborun.Lol.Anyways, if I try not to give y’all the gist some people are ready to skin my butts’. There is this saying that diamonds are a girl’s best friend but in TEMMY’S case shopping is the only thing I LOVE DOING! Ex called me on Thursday night and asked if will go shopping with him as he is going back to obodo Nigeria and he wants to buy shirts for work and other stuvvs. My ears no dey hear shopping, I agreed without too much pressure. The date was set for Saturday and we agreed to meet at the West End at 10am. Sure, I did not get there till 11.30(had to keep him waiting). I switched off my phones and he couldn’t get through to me till I called him at 11.30am that I was outside Topshop. He said he was in Topman, had to go meet him there. Boy, was he looking good? He was gorgeous! I jumped at him and gave him a kiss on the lips. I am sure my grandfather turned in his grave. No shame, I threw caution to the wind, I probably have really missed him. He was shocked; I could tell he was not expecting that sort of greeting from moi.To the main gist o that is how we started this spree, for every item EX picked, I must pick my own. From one shop to the other giggling like 2 teenagers in love (lie lie). I got to pick 6 tops And yes the addict in me sprang up when we got to Debenhams. I bought 20 lovely and sexy panties which I made sure EX picked all out. Frilly pink things ohh, you need to see my new collection of pantaloons as my sis calls them.Then we proceeded to the bags section in John Lewis and puhleease I only bought 2 bags and they were quite cheap. It isn’t like I wasn’t being considerate o before you start to think that I am wicked. All I was doing was to look and coo at the item and EX asks me, do you want that as well, and me batting my eyelids says yes if ''WE'' can still afford it.Well, we changed money at the local bureau de change so I knew money dey hin hand well well. If I no spend am now, na those silly gals for ABJ go spend the money. I topped it all up deliciously by buying shoes which EX insisited looks really nice on the jeans i was wearing, not that I like the shoes but he said he wanted me to have them!
We had to pick a cab from West End and he insisted on seeing me home. (He is a gentleman, after I don spend his money finish).As he was about leaving my house He said and I quote I still love you very much and I am sure that you thinking that I am trying to buy your love, I am not. You deserve more than whatever I bought for you today. I want you to have the ring I bought for you as well, as i can never bear to give it to another woman. Aaaaawgggghhhhhhhhh. Sad thing is i have gotten over the crying phase, i started to laugh.We hugged, he got into a cab and left.I sorted out my booty, took a long shower and i was about sleeping when i remembered he gave me the ring. I pulled it out of my bag and I couldnt resist wearing the ring, it was awesome. It felt so good to be wearing the ring,despite the fact that i slipped it on my self. Now i think i know what ladies feel when that special guy slips that ring on their finger!!!

I quickly removed it before the thing go con glue to my finger. I was turning it round and inside the ring was our initials:O and T etched on the inside of the ring. Now i couldnt stop the tears........ How so romantic of him but how so stupid of him to cheat as well. I am not going back to him that one is certain(that was me talking to myself).I called him an hour later to thank him for my things and i asked him how he got the ring inscribed with our initials, said he was not going to tell me. Asked him why and he said I may change my mind someday and he wants it to be a surprise. Dreamer!

I asked him what he wanted for xmas as it has been our ritual in the 5 years to always ask, as we both dont like surprises. Ex said he will think about it and call me back, i quickly told him that he should pay for my ticket to Spain for Xmas and the hotel accomodation. Deal, he said. My jazz is really working o, this boy is just agreeing to everything ke. He called me from the airport monday morning, i was not even aware he was leaving.

Him: babes, did you sleep well?
Moi: like a log, thanks once again for my things.
Him: hey, stop it. You have said thank you a million times already. You are making me feel like a nice person.
Moi: thnak God you know that you are not o.
Him: I have made up my mind on what i want for Xmas
Moi: and that is?(praying it wont be too expensive)
Him: YOU!
Moi? me?
Him: yes.
Moi: Lets talk when you get to Nigeria, i am runing late for work. Have a safe trip.
I have not been picking up his calls.
I wore my shoes to work today and carried one of the bags and everyone said i was looking bunzz.

That is the end of my gist! I am sure someone just hissed now: so this is what we have been waiting to read abi? Hee heee.